This time it’s extra special, not just because I’m bringing you another fabulous guest, but because I had the privilege of sitting on the judging panel when she was crowned. Watching her grace, poise, and composure on that stage was a moment I won’t forget. She reminded us all that confidence doesn’t have to be loud; it can be graceful, grounded, and deeply inspiring. From Miss Sri Lanka in the EU to now, wearing the crown of Mrs Sri Lanka.

Today on Buzz with Danu, I’m so proud to welcome the newly crowned Mrs Sri Lanka - Sabina T. Yousaf! 

1. Congratulations on becoming Mrs Sri Lanka! What was going through your mind when they announced your name?

Thank you!!!! My hands were shaking during the countdown. I believed in myself, but I was standing beside someone very close to my heart, and that uncertainty was nerve-wracking in a very special way. When my name was announced, I instantly felt peace wash over me — a sense of belonging. I was overwhelmed with happiness and deep gratitude toward the judges and the Sri Lankan people for believing in me.

2. What inspired you to step into this pageant world again, and why now?

So often, after marriage, we women put our personal dreams on hold to fulfil family responsibilities. What inspired me to return was the desire to show that pageantry isn’t only for single women — it’s a platform for married women, too. We also have stories to tell and dreams to chase. I’m deeply grateful to Mr Chandimal Jayasinghe for creating awareness and opportunities for married women in beauty pageants, and for being so passionate about empowering us.

3. You were once Miss Sri Lanka in the EU 2016. How different was that journey compared to winning Mrs Sri Lanka today?

I was only 16 when I competed in Miss Sri Lanka in the EU. I’ve always dreamed of the pageant world because it celebrates both beauty and purpose — “beauty with brains.” Back then, I was young and less experienced, but I was mature for my age. Today, I bring more knowledge, depth, and life experience. Both journeys were unique and meaningful — each shaped me into the woman I am today.

4. What lessons from your earlier pageant days helped you secure this crown?

That nothing comes easy. In my earlier days, I didn’t fully understand how much work it truly takes. But I’ve always loved working hard because the satisfaction it brings is priceless. I learned that giving back and making others proud — especially the people from my small hometown — is the most rewarding feeling. Sharing my achievements with them is what truly matters to me.

5. How does it feel to come back into the pageant spotlight at a different stage of your life?

It feels wonderful. I’m more comfortable now because I’ve been through it before, and I’m also more determined because I know what it takes. I took time to grow personally, professionally, and academically — so stepping back into the pageant world with more knowledge and experience makes this chapter even more meaningful.

6. Marriage is such a beautiful new chapter — how has your husband supported you through this pageant journey?

Gosh, I love my husband — he’s truly the best decision I’ve ever made. He has been my biggest supporter throughout this journey. My dreams have become his, and his dreams have become mine. Through communication and understanding, we’ve realised that together, we can accomplish anything. He’s a proud husband, and that makes me an even prouder wife. Along with my husband, my mother, father, and entire family have been my backbone — I couldn’t have done this without them.

7. Winning Mrs Sri Lanka is not just an individual victory but a family one. How did your family celebrate this milestone with you?

My family has been there for me since day one — especially my mother. From changing outfits in the car to removing my makeup late at night, she’s been my strength through every step. I may be strong, but I’m also human, and like everyone else, I need a support system. My family has shown me that love truly is the foundation of everything. They celebrated my victory with pure joy and pride — even organising a parade in our hometown to welcome me back. It was one of the most emotional moments of my life.

8. Do you think marriage has given you more strength and depth to represent Sri Lankan women on a global platform?

Absolutely. Marriage has made me stronger and more grounded. I’ve always believed in myself, but having my husband as my greatest supporter has given me even more confidence and stability. Representing Sri Lankan women internationally will be one of the greatest honours of my life.

9. You’ve been both a “Miss” and now a “Mrs.” titleholder — what’s the biggest difference in those experiences?

As a “Mrs.” titleholder, I don’t just represent myself — I also represent my marriage and my family. That comes with deeper responsibility and a different kind of pride. It’s not just about individual achievement anymore, but about embodying partnership, respect, and shared values.

10. Some people say pageants after marriage are more about personality and balance. Do you agree?

Yes, I do — but I also believe that even before marriage, pageants are about self-growth and personal development. Whether you’re Miss or Mrs., it’s about finding balance, building confidence, and learning to represent yourself with grace and authenticity.

11. You carry not just a crown but a responsibility. What causes or advocacies do you want to champion as Mrs. Sri Lanka?

My biggest goal is to inspire Sri Lankan people — especially women — to follow their dreams unapologetically. I want to highlight the beauty of our women, our heritage, and our nation. Most importantly, I want to give back to our communities through social work and empowerment initiatives. Giving back has always been close to my heart.

12. How did you prepare mentally and physically for this pageant, and what advice would you give aspiring contestants?

Never give up. The journey can be tough, but mental preparation is everything. Only one person can win, and that’s okay — what truly matters is growth. Identify your weaknesses and turn them into strengths while keeping your confidence balanced. Remember, every step, every setback, every lesson makes you stronger.

13. Pageants can be high-pressure. What was your strategy to stay calm and confident on stage?

Faith and presence. I always put my trust in God and stay present in the moment. Meditation helps, but preparation and focus are key. When you find inner peace, it shines through on stage. My rule is simple — never do too much, never too little. Stay balanced, be humble, and most importantly, be yourself. Authenticity is your greatest strength.

14. Who has been your biggest inspiration — in life and in pageantry?

My mother, without a doubt. Her strength, grace, and determination inspire me every single day. She’s the epitome of elegance and resilience — she never gives up, and that’s the biggest lesson she’s given me.

In pageantry, I deeply admire Rosy Senanayake. The way she has turned her beauty, intellect, and compassion into a lifetime of service to Sri Lanka is something I truly look up to. She’s one of the most powerful and accomplished women in our country’s history.

15. Finally, what’s next for you? Would you be living in Sri Lanka?

Yes, my husband and I are currently looking for our own place in Sri Lanka. However, since we both have business abroad, we’ll be travelling back and forth for work. We enjoy that lifestyle — it gives us a mix of cultures and experiences. It takes effort and balance, but we’re ready for this next chapter together.