Sex has come a long way from puritans to middle ages and the culturally contested, with statistics suggesting that intercourse occurs every 4 minutes somewhere in the world. The question really isn’t about sex anymore; it’s more on the lines of what the best types of sex are.
Due to its intimate relationship with the human psyche, sex is a paradoxical complexity which in the most intriguing way serves the most basic of cellular functions; reproduction.
Pleasure obtained through intercourse though primarily physical has large elements of emotional and psychological satiation attached to it. The best types of sex therefore are the ones that offer optimum levels of emotional stimulation outside of the physical paradigm.
Role Play
Role playing is a form of escapism which helps to add variety to an otherwise mundane sex life. This type of sex is most important for long term relationships which have stood the test of time but are finding it increasingly harder to keep the fires alight.
Role play varies over a large spectrum of roles which the individuals can play out but maintains a few aspects that are integral to its basic structure, one such aspect is the balance of power, allowing individuals to change the otherwise set dynamics of a relationship by letting the less dominant individual play out a reversed role thus balancing the equation.
Another important aspect is the ventilation of fixations such as childhood fantasies. The importance being that fixations are one of the faucets through which attractions flow and hence allows to direct the attraction towards one’s partner by seeing him/her in a different light.
High Roller Suites
Location is important in adding the aesthetics to a romantic experience and nothing is more romantic than an overpriced luxury indulgence. In reality the spending isn’t as important as the state of mind is, what’s required is that both partners are taken out of the everyday stressors and submerged in what they perceive to be a luxury experience.
This kind of sex is largely motivated by our hive mentality which means that we are driven to value and consume what media influences us to believe to be valuable. As the old adage goes, when you can’t beat them just join them and book the luxury suite for a weekend getaway.
Public Places
Don’t be mistaken I’m not endorsing this in the very least but public places and sex have a certain allure that is hard to deny. For the more conservative couples it might help to understand the underlying principle and recreate the situation.
Sex in public places provides a level of inhibition and excitement which creates a sense of urgency otherwise unknown in the bedroom. The thing is that fear of being spotted inhibits free movements which in turn bring an element of pursuing what cannot be to the table (or the last row at the movies).
Sex On The Beach
Not one of the many luxuries we can afford in sands close to home but nevertheless sex on the beach is great for one reason and one reason only; it’s straight from the reason.
You want to get it on in the sand for the same reason you want to get it on with Angelina Jolie or Ryan Gosling, they’re all straight out of the movies and everyone likes a little bit of surrealism once in a while.
Taboo
No, not the board game, I’m talking more on the lines of your girlfriend’s sister. Once again I’m endorsing nothing of this sort but it’s easy to see the charm forbidden sex has on offer, it’s racy and it’s taboo, what better reasons?
Long Time No See
This is a personal favourite, sex is that much better when you’re made to feel nostalgic while engaging in it. The entire point is that sex with an old time squeeze (or your widowed ex girlfriend) offers a variance that is both comforting and fresh at the same time.
Things might have changed but some things are the same and knowing you’ve been there before helps the whole thing.
Loud Angry Violent
Those three words sum up the chart topping type of sex known to man. Not to be a cynic but sex really does appeal to the most base levels of our consciousness and volatile angry sex is the queen of all things primal.
By Dilshan Senaratne
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